Why would a young man, entering marriage, set as his lifetime goal, his highest priority, his ultimate dream - to be the best husband ever? Again, what would drive a man to get that special trophy given to a great husband? Furthermore, who will applaud him for it? (For sure, they don't make too many trophies because of the lack of demand!) The truth of the matter is that it doesn't make a difference. If a man can work hard at being an expert husband, he will reap very generous rewards. A woman who receives the caring and devotion and attention and unconditional love and time and support and entertainment and loyalty of her husband (whew!) will reward her hard working husband for his efforts every minute of his life. A loved woman (even more than a loved pup or a pet rock) will return her received love to her mate in geometric proportions. Ironically, a woman, despite her inherent strength and while being created so perfectly, thank God, still has an odd weakness, the need to be admired and adored by a man. And when she gets that admiration and adoration, she will make her mate a lifetime lottery winner.